Lundy Bancroft ist ein Autor und anerkannter Leiter von Workshops und Beratungen, der sich auf häusliche Gewalt und Kindesmisshandlung spezialisiert. Seine Arbeit taucht tief in die komplexen Dynamiken von Wut und Kontrolle in Beziehungen ein und bietet tiefgründige Einblicke in die Motivationen und Verhaltensweisen von Tätern. Mit zwei Jahrzehnten Erfahrung in der Arbeit mit gewalttätigen Männern und ihren Familien bringt Bancroft umfassendes Wissen aus erster Hand ein. Sein Ansatz ist in tiefem Verständnis begründet und vermittelt den Lesern entscheidende Erkenntnisse zur Bewältigung dieser ernsten Themen.
Focusing on the dynamics of abusive relationships, this guide offers insights from a therapist experienced in working with abusive men. It explores the ways abusers manipulate children and provides practical strategies for mothers to support their children in healing from the trauma of witnessing such abuse. Through understanding and actionable advice, the book aims to empower families to recover and foster resilience in the face of adversity.
In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship. He says he loves you. So...why does he do that? You’ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about: • The early warning signs of abuse • The nature of abusive thinking • Myths about abusers • Ten abusive personality types • The role of drugs and alcohol • What you can fix, and what you can’t • And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely “This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives.”—Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health
Focusing on emotional recovery, this guide offers a fresh perspective on healing, challenging conventional self-help methods. Lundy Bancroft emphasizes the importance of forming healing partnerships and understanding the cyclical nature of recovery. He introduces the concept of an emotional immune system and how to harness the power of opposites for personal growth. The book also highlights the Peak Living Network, a peer-led support system, and aims to transform the healing process into a joyful experience. Bancroft's extensive background in abuse recovery informs this unique approach.
Readings to Empower and Encourage Women Involved with Angry and Controlling Men
Lundy Bancroft expands on his bestseller Why Does He Do That? in this daily guide that empowers women who are suffering in abusive relationships.Even if you've read Why Does He Do That?, it may be hard to see the truth of what is happening to you. You may feel overwhelmed by confusion, loss, and fear, and find yourself looking away from the truth and falling back into traumatic patterns.What you need is something that is there for you every day--to help you make a long series of little changes that will ultimately add up to a big one.Like a constant friend, this collection of meditations is a source of strength and reassurance designed to speak to women like you, women in relationships with angry and controlling men. It is a tool you can use to learn how to value and respect yourself--even when your partner makes it very clear that he does not.With seven themes designed to encourage and inspire, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That? will help you digest what is happening one day at a time, so that you can gain clarity, safety, and freedom.You will see the truth in your destructive relationship.You and your children will survive.And--with these encouragements--even tomorrow will be a better day than today.