Tom Omidi Bücher

The value of a person's thoughts depends on his/her personality, primary wisdom, mood, and motives. However, we all share the same fundamental thoughts about life intuitively. They are the most primitive and instinctual thoughts (and questions) that we reflect upon regarding our existence. They are primary thoughts behind the whole philosophy, processes, and actions of life. We know intuitively—like a kind of magical power—about our need for fundamental thoughts to define life, grow our convictions, and develop a personal life philosophy. Only then, we believe, we can begin to justify our existence as an intelligent person somewhat. At the very least, we like to feel some basic senses of compassion, love, and peace in line with valid thoughts.At the same time, the miraculous, vast scope of our thoughts reflects the complexity of human nature and hints the possibility of reaching a higher level of humanness if only we understood our naiveté, sentiments, brilliance, arrogance, and ignorance that be-siege us, all at once or in rotations. We only need to know the right thoughts to make our lives meaningful.Surely, our success in life depends on our character and back-ground, but also personal efforts to control our thoughts at least thirty percent of the time. Even this minimal awareness of our thoughts is helpful for maintaining a healthier lifestyle. Yet, most of us do not know the best way of using our brains.

This book examines the declining state of relationships in modern societies, aiming to find practical solutions. It presents a thorough analysis of man/woman relationships, grounded in scientific facts but accessible to the general public. Unlike current approaches that only address symptoms of conflicts, it delves into the underlying issues affecting relationships, viewing them as a societal pandemic. The content is structured to facilitate understanding, with each chapter offering innovative ideas and detailed explanations of couples' limitations in relating to one another. To counter alarming trends in relationships, the book calls for radical changes in mindset and social mechanisms. Drawing from the author's fifteen years of research and personal experience in saving his own marriage, the text includes around 135,000 words and over thirty-five diagrams and tables. It highlights how distorted perceptions of love and relationship purposes, along with shifting social values and lifestyles, have led to increased distress, rising divorce rates, and ongoing family conflicts. The author argues that current methods of addressing relationship issues have failed, necessitating a focus on the root causes. The book encourages couples to reassess their views on relationships and offers a framework for more realistic evaluations. Ultimately, it seeks to restore objectivity in relationships, advocating for effective connections that h