The teen years are filled with social challenges in school, sports, and beyond, where teasing, bullying, and exclusion are prevalent. Social media has intensified these issues, making them more subtle and pervasive. However, when young people learn to respond effectively, manage their emotions, and recognize their self-worth, they can reclaim their power and develop lifelong skills. An education consultant and parenting expert provides guidance alongside ten inspiring stories from young adults who have successfully navigated bullying and social exclusion. This resource empowers teens to address problems themselves, fostering mastery over situations instead of relying on parents to intervene. It equips parents, teens, and educators with vital anti-bullying strategies, including understanding the reasons behind teasing, handling rumors, managing physical bullying, overcoming feelings of isolation, cultivating an empowered mindset, and standing up for others without jeopardizing themselves. The author emphasizes that while one cannot control external circumstances, they can control their response. This book helps kids realize that while they may not stop a bully, they can assert themselves and regain their power, influencing the situation rather than feeling helpless. Essential reading for anyone involved with teens, it encourages them to find their voice, problem-solve, and navigate challenging social landscapes.
Kim John Payne Reihenfolge der Bücher
Kim John Payne ist ein erfahrener Familienberater und Bildungskonsulent mit über dreißigjähriger Praxis. Seine Arbeit konzentriert sich auf Kindererziehung und die Schaffung unterstützender Umgebungen für Familien und Schulen. Paynes Ansatz betont Einfachheit und soziale Nachhaltigkeit, was Kindern und Erwachsenen hilft, die Komplexität der modernen Welt besser zu bewältigen. Er widmet sich der Suche nach praktischen Lösungen für gängige Erziehungs- und Bildungsprobleme.







- 2022
- 2021
The Soul of Discipline
The Simplicity Parenting Approach to Warm, Firm, and Calm Guidance -- From Toddlers to Teens
- 336 Seiten
- 12 Lesestunden
Challenging or defiant behavior in children is reinterpreted as a signal of their need for guidance and direction. Kim John Payne offers a straightforward plan for parents to create loving, age-appropriate boundaries that foster a sense of safety and stability. By understanding that misbehavior often stems from feelings of being lost, parents can better support their children in finding their way. This book provides valuable insights for nurturing relationships and promoting emotional well-being in children.
- 2021
This classic games book offers a standby resource for parents, teachers, forest school educators and play leaders. The games are tried and tested. They draw on worldwide Steiner - Waldorf creative education, where a 'child's work is their play.' Child growth is explored and how this is helped by a rich treasury of action, finger, circle, clapping, beanbag, chasing, water, tumbling, story and singing games. There are both traditional favourites and also new games created to engage with digitally challenging behaviour.
- 2020
Waldorf Games Handbook for the Early Years - Games to Play & Sing with Children aged 3 to 7
- 144 Seiten
- 6 Lesestunden
Waldorf Games Handbook for the Early Years - Games to Play & Sing with Children aged 3 to 7 A offers a handy guide to playing games with young children. This classic games book offers a standby resource for parents, teachers, forest school educators and play leaders. The games are tried and tested. They draw on worldwide Steiner - Waldorf creative education, where a child's work is their play. Child growth is explored and how this is helped by a rich treasury of action, finger, circle, clapping, beanbag, chasing, water, tumbling, story and singing games. There are both traditional favourites and also new games created to engage with digitally challenging behaviour.
- 2019
Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are at Their Worst
- 224 Seiten
- 8 Lesestunden
This practical, meditative approach helps parents remain calm and balanced when faced with challenging child behavior. In difficult moments, parents strive to respond in ways that align with their family values, yet they often find themselves reacting contrary to these principles, exacerbating the situation. Recognizing these predictable patterns can be disheartening, leading to the feeling of "Oh no, here we go again." When children misbehave, they need parents to be at their best. So how can parents transition from "stress regress" to a warm, calm, and firm response? Educator Kim John Payne provides straightforward techniques that effectively shift damaging communication patterns. These tools help parents slow down interactions, create a sense of inner spaciousness, and gain better control over their reactions. They also enable parents to identify their child's deeper needs despite misbehavior and respond in ways that validate the child while establishing necessary boundaries. The approach encourages reframing challenging situations, allowing for effective, appropriate, and kind responses, empowering parents to navigate difficult moments with grace.
- 2018
Melegszívű fegyelmezés
Kisgyerekkortól kamaszkorig
- 2015
Dnešní zrychlená doba a přehlcená společnost vedou tichou válku proti dětství. Děti jsou obklopeny nadbytkem věcí, mají příliš velké možnosti výběru a velmi málo volného času. V důsledku toho jsou často úzkostlivé, mají problémy s kamarády a se školou, u některých jsou dokonce diagnostikovány poruchy chování. Kim John Payne, mezinárodně uznávaný rodinný konzultant, pomáhá rodičům a hlavně jejich dětem znovu nalézt prostor a svobodu, které jsou klíčové pro rozvoj dětské osobnosti. Tato kniha přináší nejen inspiraci, ale i praktické nápady a konkrétní kroky k pozitivní změně: • Zjednodušte své domácí prostředí. Zmenšete množství hraček, knih a věcí obecně. Zredukujte i světla a zvuky tak, aby dětské smysly nebyly přetíženy. • Zaveďte rytmy a rituály. Objevte způsoby, jak odlehčit každodenní napětí, eliminujte stres během jídla a doby usínání. Naučte se rozpoznat, kdy je vaše dítě zahlcené. • Naplánujte si ve svém rozvrhu pauzu pro odpočinek. Zaveďte do každodenního dětského proudu aktivit chvíle klidu a vnitřního propojení. • Zredukujte vliv médií a rodičovské zasahování. Udržujte přehled o tom, kolik času dítě tráví u obrazovky, a omezte tu nekonečnou záplavu informací a stimulací.
- 2010
Simplicity Parenting
Weniger ist mehr ─ Was Kinder wirklich brauchen, um ausgeglichen, glücklich und rundum geborgen aufzuwachsen - Das Original - Mit einem Vorwort von Steve Biddulph
Das Kultbuch aus den USA – endlich auf Deutsch Zu viel Zeug, zu viel Auswahl – und dabei immer zu wenig Zeit. Täglich wird die innere Balance unserer Kinder gefährdet. Wie sich Kinder auch in unserer schnelllebigen Zeit unbeschwert, frei und geschützt entfalten können, zeigt der international angesehene Familienberater Kim John Payne: Durch ein vereinfachtes, übersichtlicheres Zuhause mit weniger Spielzeug, weniger sensorischen Reizen, weniger Freizeitstress – und stattdessen mehr Ruhepausen, vorhersehbaren Rhythmen und liebevollen Ritualen, die die gesamte Familie stärken. So entwickeln Kinder das, was wir ihnen für ein ganzes Leben wünschen: Selbstwirksamkeit, Selbstvertrauen, Gelassenheit und innere Stärke – die beste Basis und das wertvollste Geschenk, das Eltern ihren Kindern mitgeben können.


