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Melissa Febos

    Melissa Febos ist eine Autorin, deren Werke sich mit den Tiefen von Identität, Verkörperung und komplexen Beziehungen befassen. Durch ihre ausgeprägte und oft introspektive Prosa erforscht sie Themen wie Weiblichkeit, Trauma und die Suche nach Selbstfindung. Ihre Essays und Memoiren werden für ihre Offenheit, ihr literarisches Können und ihre Fähigkeit gelobt, grundlegende menschliche Erfahrungen mit tiefem Einfühlungsvermögen und Einsicht zu beleuchten.

    Whip Smart
    Abandon Me
    Body work
    Girlhood
    • 2022

      AN INSTANT NATIONAL BESTSELLER Memoir meets craft master class in this “daring, honest, psychologically insightful” exploration of how we think and write about intimate experiences—“a must read for anybody shoving a pen across paper or staring into a screen or a past" (Mary Karr) In this bold and exhilarating mix of memoir and master class, Melissa Febos tackles the emotional, psychological, and physical work of writing intimately while offering an utterly fresh examination of the storyteller’s life and the questions which run through it. How might we go about capturing on the page the relationships that have formed us? How do we write about our bodies, their desires and traumas? What does it mean for an author’s way of writing, or living, to be dismissed as “navel-gazing”—or else hailed as “so brave, so raw”? And to whom, in the end, do our most intimate stories belong? Drawing on her own path from aspiring writer to acclaimed author and writing professor—via addiction and recovery, sex work and academia—Melissa Febos has created a captivating guide to the writing life, and a brilliantly unusual exploration of subjectivity, privacy, and the power of divulgence. Candid and inspiring, Body Work will empower readers and writers alike, offering ideas—and occasional notes of caution—to anyone who has ever hoped to see themselves in a story.

      Body work
    • 2021

      Girlhood

      »Ein feministisches Zeugnis des Überlebens.« The New York Times Book Review

      4,3(9710)Abgeben

      Es gibt viele wichtige Bücher über Feminismus. Aber keine ihrer Autorinnen hat derart viele Leben gelebt wie Melissa Febos: glückliche Kindheit auf Cape Cod, mit zwanzig heroinabhängig, das Studium finanziert als Domina. Heute führt sie mit ihrer Ehefrau ein bürgerliches Leben und unterrichtet an der Universität. In ihrem Kultbuch »Girlhood« erkundet Melissa Febos die Gemeinsamkeiten aller Lebensphasen, um herauszufinden, welche Wunden das Patriarchat in einem Frauenleben schlägt. Wie wir sie freilegen, wie wir sie heilen. Sie findet beunruhigend eindrückliche Beispiele, wie Frauen von klein auf darauf konditioniert sind, an ihrer eigenen Herabwürdigung mitzuwirken. Von misogyner Gewalt und Mobbing, vom Belästigen, Stalken, Spannen bis zur Evolution falsch gedeuteten Einverständnisses. »Girlhood« handelt von der Rückeroberung des eigenen Körpers und vom Ende der Ausbeutung durch das Patriarchat. Für Leser: innen von Sophie Passmann, »Pick me Girls« und Seyda Kurt, »Radikale Zärtlichkeit«

      Girlhood
    • 2017

      Abandon Me

      • 308 Seiten
      • 11 Lesestunden
      4,2(2555)Abgeben

      "In her critically acclaimed memoir, Whip Smart, Melissa Febos laid bare the intimate world of the professional dominatrix, turning an honest examination of her life into a lyrical study of power, desire, and fulfillment. In her dazzling Abandon Me, Febos captures the intense bonds of love and the need for connection -- with family, lovers, and oneself. First, her birth father, who left her with only an inheritance of addiction and Native American blood, its meaning a mystery. As Febos tentatively reconnects, she sees how both these lineages manifest in her own life, marked by compulsion and an instinct for self-erasure. Meanwhile, she remains closely tied to the sea captain who raised her, his parenting ardent but intermittent as his work took him away for months at a time. Woven throughout is the hypnotic story of an all-consuming, long-distance love affair with a woman, marked equally by worship and withdrawal. In visceral, erotic prose, Febos captures their mutual abandonment to passion and obsession -- and the terror and exhilaration of losing herself in another. At once a fearlessly vulnerable memoir and an incisive investigation of art, love, and identity, Abandon Me draws on childhood stories, religion, psychology, mythology, popular culture, and the intimacies of one writer's life to reveal intellectual and emotional truths that feel startlingly universal."--

      Abandon Me
    • 2011

      Whip Smart

      The True Story of a Secret Life

      • 290 Seiten
      • 11 Lesestunden
      3,6(177)Abgeben

      Exploring themes of identity and belonging, the narrative follows Meiliia Febos's journey as she navigates life in New York City as a college freshman at the New School. Through her experiences, she grapples with the complexities of youth, self-discovery, and the vibrant yet challenging urban landscape. The story captures her struggles and triumphs, offering a poignant reflection on the formative years of young adulthood.

      Whip Smart